27 May 2015

Every woman is a leader, are you?

“I always did something I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow. When there’s that moment of ‘Wow, I’m not really sure I can do this,’ and you push through those moments, that’s when you have a breakthrough.” 
- Marissa Mayer, CEO of Yahoo!

Have you ever met someone who did something out of nowhere and inspired you to do something better in life?

Have you ever spoken to someone who was no less than a leader to you? Who could lead the best out of you and leave the shortcomings?

The goal can vary, but the definition to lead, never.

Leaders?

  • Those who rule
  • Those who run an organisation
  • Those who lead a team
  • Those who don’t fear about what’s next and have a definite aim in life
  • Those who hold positions
Isn’t that a woman who runs a home is no less than a leader?

She has more responsibilities on her shoulders than anyone else. Don’t you agree?

As I look upto the women who have inspired me to do something and be better in life, it is the women in my family that I look upto first.

Mother, tops the list. Doubts? None. She has always drawn me to her innate sense of leadership over the years. Inspite of the problems, tedious chores, taking care of 3 kids, she has always managed to keep her hold and come out brighter than the sunshine every single day.

The next in line is my sister. I have always fought with her, but then, she has always been an inspiration to me, in one way or the other. Be it about being disciplined, or the love for traveling. I think I have inherited this quality from her, following a travel plan every day, saving up a bit every day to fulfill it. Isn’t that a characteristic of a leader? To spread his/her aura?

Another woman whom I admire the most was my school teacher, back in secondary section. A young, independent woman. She believed in what we say, “You only live once. If you do that right, once is enough.” Encouraging the young girls to believe in their dreams from an early age. Inculcating extra-curricular activities and grow, apart from studies. She never got married, we never knew the reason why. She went on to changing a lot more lives. Including mine.




#EveryWomanIsALeader and the notion needs to be celebrated, every single day. Because this very thought is empowering.

It is time to look within and discover the leader in you. So, what are you waiting for?


How does a workplace ensure that there is no gender bias and women are getting equal opportunity to showcase their hard work and talent?

Empowerment of women in the workforce would mean:
  • Allowing women to have more control over their lives
  • Giving them the freedom to make their own schedules.
  • Learn new skills and gain self-reliance. 
Empowerment is created when the strengths that women already bring to the company are recognized and utilized. 

How does one ensure that they are engaged at the maximum level?
  • Hire more women
  • Ensure safety - This is of utmost importance in today's life. Transport and escort arrangements are the need of the time.
  • Majority of women leave their domestic life behind to work. Workplaces can provide facilities and perks that help them overcome domestic barricades.
etc.


  • Investment in safe working conditions and health policies is also not just good for the business but to create gender harmony at offices.
  • Adopting and emphasizing a zero-tolerance violence and sexual harassment policy at work would also be beneficial.
  • Businesses investing in health insurance policies that include counseling.
What sets all the women leaders apart, is their ability to never force anything on others but be an inspiration. Give opinion when asked but leave the ultimate decision with the people, weighing the pros and cons of every situation and opportunity.

Education and training, community leadership, mentor programs, are some other examples to nourish women empowerment and setting benchmarks across workplaces.


This post is a part of the blogging competition held by www.shethepeople.tv on the topic ‘Women in Leadership’. If you have blogged about it or want to, the entry stands a chance to win an all-paid expense trip to an exciting destination. 

10 May 2015

#MomIsTheWorld Giveaway with Jabong.com


One day is not enough to celebrate the wonderful woman in our lives. The secret keeper, a best friend, the protector, an inspiration, a woman like no other, words are less to explain what a mother is to us.

How are you making this day special for her? 

I will tell you how!

Go to the Jabong website, pick a dress/bags/shows/accessories that you would like to style your mom in and 1 of you will stand a chance to win a gift voucher worth 1K from Jabong!



Few rules to follow:

Is it going to be the bags, the shoes, the Kurti or the sunglasses to keep her protected from the summer heat? Tell me all!







C’mon, get styling!

Contest is open till 11th May 2015 (midnight!) only. Open to all the Indian residents.

26 April 2015

Bring Hair Alive with Himalaya Herbals!

For those who follow me on twitter, know how much I crib about my schedule and pathetic Mumbai locals. Day begins at 7 am and by the time I am back to my lovely bed, it is close to midnight. Yes, not kidding. This whole month has been one heck of a busy time due to which I was unable to blog too.

By the way, have you heard of blessings out of blue moon? Himalaya Herbals turned out to be one for me! Amidst the entire hustle bustle, Himalaya Herbals hosted an event ‘Bring Hair Alive’.

Shiny, bouncy, healthy, long, strong, and the list goes on. We all wish for such hair, don’t we?

I must say, the name of the event was intriguing enough. My hair has always been in need of rejuvenation and life, and my search stopped here.

The day was all about being pampered and give ourselves a hair spa treatment right at the comfort of home. Yes, the 6-step regime of Himalaya Herbals can be done right at home for the best hair treatment.

Himalaya Herbals Hair Care range focuses heavily on the natural ingredients which are easily available in India. The range has products ranging from Shampoos, Conditioners, Hair Creams and Oils. Whether you have hair fall, dry, damaged or dandruff hair, Himalaya Herbals has products in each category for all your hair needs.


Let’s get into the 6-step solution by following these easy steps to get you a hair spa at home. The treatment started with choosing between the Anti-Dandruff and Anti-Hair fall range. Since I have dandruff problem, the choice was made without any hesitation.
  • Step 1. Begin the spa by massaging your scalp for 10-15 minutes using the Himalaya Herbals Oil. A good massage means, good blood circulation. It relives one off stress and brings one’s hair alive.
  • Step 2. Wash your hair with lukewarm water. Shampoo it. I used the Himalaya Herbals Anti-Dandruff shampoo to not just soothe my scalp but also to get rid of dandruff. 
  • Step 3. Apply a hair mask/cream from root to tip and leave in on for 15 minutes for nourishment and that desired softness.
  • Step 4. Relax and give steam to your hair for 10-15 minutes for deeper penetration. Steaming helps in opening the pores. It also helps the nourishment reach to the roots.
  • Step 5. Wash your hair again to remove the cream off it.
  • Step 6. Apply conditioner to moisturize your tresses.
Few pictures from the event...






Apply the conditioner on each strand and leave for 2-3 minutes. Later, wash off.

The 6-step process and a wonderful head massage not only gave me relaxation but also made my hair feel soft, smooth and nourished.


The products are natural and easily available. I have always used their Neem face wash and after this event, the hair care range has become my go-to hair care solution!


Stay tuned for more stories!

21 April 2015

5 ways to style your midi skirt!

It is that time of the year when you finally take out all those skirts from the wardrobe. Skirts take one back to the 70s and 80s and there are plenty of ways to style one!

Let’s get into my ‘5 ways to style your midi skirt’. Yes! The Midi Skirt, my recent love. Now is the moment and it fits the season perfectly. Either you wear them with crisp collar shirts and ballerinas for work or team up with a crop top for cocktail evenings.


Check out these stylish ways and tell me which one’s your favorite!

For the Mornings



I bought this denim top a year back from Elco Market. It was something I was looking for. A knot in front, something which not just goes with denim shorts and jeans but also skirts. Paired up with sneakers, the idea is to fit the morning perfectly. A playful, carefree morning with a sling bag from India Circus. Don’t they look cute together?

How about an office look?




If you ask me, I have got bored of the regular office look. How about we play around with it a bit and add style? Pick up a crisp shirt from your wardrobe, any colour! Throw this look together with a pair of ballerinas and believe me, the day will look all freshened up. A comfortable yet stylish boardroom look, what do you think?

To add, I have a box clutch here which one can even wear as a sling. It is one of my favorite bags (Wanderlust hint, see that? Stamps and stuff.)

For the evenings





For a fun evening ahead, pair your midi skirt with a full sleeve top and a backpack and a Chic look is all yours. Don’t ask me where I bought that top from. It is some 10 years old, yes. Don’t believe me?

I particularly love the closed neck of it, team up with long earrings and you are good to go!


Late evenings and that cocktail dinner party



A form fitting, high-neck top, heels, clutch and midi skirt – perfect late evening/night look. I have kept the look simple yet elegant here. Throw some colors on with a red lipstick. Super girly and you are guaranteed a fun night!

You can’t say NO to Crop top







Nothing defines a midi skirt better than a crop top. Amp up your wardrobe with back to basics with this crop top & midi skirt. Crop tops have definitely got a chic update! What say? Will you try this look? Team up with wedges and tie up your hair for a change.

All I would say is, Go and buy a midi skirt for yourself before this summer-spring season runs out. Also, don't forget to tell me about your favorite look from the above 5!


Skirt bought from Faballey, Myntra.

Footwear:
Maroon Ballerinas from Bata
Black Heels from a local shoe store
Wedges from Catwalk

Bags:
Sling Bag from India Circus
Rest all from street shopping in Mumbai
Tops/Shirt:

Crop Top from the designer Nisha Sainani
High-neck black top bought from Limeroad
Long sleeve top (I do not remember!), 10 year old almost
Denim top from Elco Market, Bandra
Shirt bought from Lee Cooper, Myntra

Write to me at: shrimali.m24@gmail.com for any queries!


Until we meet here again, stay stylish! 

23 March 2015

Summer with Soulflower! #SummerSkinNeeds

Come summer & skin will need an all new regime to stay hydrated and fresh! The season of shorts, sandals, short-freckled hair, bronzed skin & long sips on Lemonades!

It is necessary to prevent your skin not just from the sun damage but also to keep it hydrated all the while. Using SPF sunscreen is not it. The skin should feel supple and fresh from inside. That’s where the natural bathing products comes to the rescue. I have used soap and aroma oils from Soulflower and their fragrance is divine! 

Why not try some of it & Restore the natural oils of your skin with refreshingly awesome products? 

Introducing summer giveaway for all of you!



Feel like a million bucks this summer by answering a really easy question & following a few steps!

1. Follow A Li’l of Everything on Facebook, Twitter & Instagram.

2. Follow Soulflower on Facebook & Twitter.

3. Answer this simple question, “What do you think your skin needs the most this summer?” Leave it as comment on this post / tweet.

4. Share this post on Facebook, Twitter or put it up on Instagram! (1 point to each!) Don't forget to tag both of us.

I will pick 3 winners! Do not forget to use the hashtag #SummerSkinNeeds to all your posts/answers. (1 winner, 1 product)

P.S: Follow these simple tips to keep your summer skin happy.

a. Stay hydrated. Drink as much water as you can and say no to aerated drinks.
b. Try and stay indoors between 12 noon to 3 pm, that’s when the sun rays are at their harmful best.
c. Use water based moisture.
d. Use an SPF 15 sunscreen or go for a sunblock.
d. Avoid oily food and say yes to fresh fruits and juices.
Trying these simple steps will help you beat the summer heat. :)
Winners will be announced on 2nd April 2015.

12 March 2015

When was the last time you did something for the first time?

Living in the past is a waste of time, and when you move forward and embrace change, you #StartANewLife!


I remember taking up this job which made it mandatory that I go for training in Delhi. My mother was not at all happy. Dad left the decision on me. And then, I moved out of the city for good 2 months, traveled alone to the city I never liked until then. I left back a few things, nonetheless, I gained more. Moreover, I got to travel, see new places and make new friends!

Change is good, no matter what time it comes. You may not like it but it is necessary. There was a time when I kept pushing dates and months to start my own blog. And then, one fine day we got an assignment in college - Start a blog of your own! Well, just the start/push I wanted, and I got it. This was almost 3 years back. Blogging opened a new facet of life. Made me independent, more open, understand what works and what doesn't when it comes to writing, triggered the creative channel and made me happy!



With blogging, I have met new people. That old undying urge to travel and see new places has got a fresh breathe of life. Result? I have decided to travel to at least 3 places every year. Because, when you travel, you open all the new horizons, you open yourself to challenges, you explore & embrace new things, perfect way to #StartANewLife with a new destination every now and then. After all, who loves monotony? Not me!

So, when was the last time you did something new? Something adventurous? Went against what you have been doing all along?



If not yet, do now!

Ask yourself these questions:
  • When did you actually do what your first impulse, or that persistent feeling is asking you to do?
  • When will you move out of that cloud created around you? Or is that a bubble?
  • Why not test your boundaries and realise what you are capable of?
  • If you always underestimate yourself and fear change, you will never know how brilliant the life can be!

Take a step ahead and #StartANewLife!
  • Move out and explore.
  • Meet new people and cuddle experiences.
  • Let go off the past, the grudges.
  • Learn from failures.
  • Appreciate the loved ones' in your life, every single day. For they, make you who you are.
  • Seek inspiration and learn new things.
  • Never shy away from change, for it will help you open up all the new facets of life.



Just like Housing.com.

Watch the video and you might just realise that, if not now, it will never be!



Open your eyes and you might just find something beautiful around the corner, waiting for you!